Co-living Etiquette

Rented Room Accommodation – Shared Housing

About Gail: I have 2 houses – 1 in Granadilla and 1 in Los Abrigos. Depending on my health requirements, I live in one and rent out the other. Since realising how critical the rental situation is for locals, I am committed to long term budget room rental and anyone that can offer similar is welcome to advertise in this section and on the group I run, Rent a Room.

House Rules

These are my rules but others are welcome to use or adapt them.

  1. 6 month minimum let. Ask for extensions before month 6. Leaving before 6 months means NO DEPOSIT REFUNDED.
  2. There is a 2 week trial period, extending to 4 weeks in case of doubt, to ensure you can fit in with the household. This is one way ONLY. It is YOUR responsibility to ensure this lifestyle works for you, not ours to fit in with your requirements. Ask what you need to BEFORE you pay your deposit and commit to 6 months!
  3. Aggressive or disruptive behavior is totally unacceptable – communication is the first resort, with final decisions made by the household or landlord. Aggression of description will not be tolerated and you will be asked to leave within 24 hours with NO DEPOSIT REFUNDED.
  4. No Smoking indoors. Break this rule and you will be asked to leave within the week with NO DEPOSIT REFUNDED. Bringing drugs of any description into the house you will be asked to leave within 24 hours!
  5. Theft of other tenants belonging, cash, credit card, phones, laptops etc. the police will be called and you will be ased to leave IMEDIATELY with NO DEPOSIT REFUNDED.
  6. Stealing. If you use food or products belonging to others that is THEFT. You will be warned once then repeat offences asked to leave within the week with NO DEPOSIT REFUNDED.
  7. Visitors: No visitors unless agreed by everyone in the house.
  8. You must commit to a share of household duties and related expenses,
  9. Use of the washer/tumble dryer: 2 washes a week are included in the rent. Additional use of the washing machine and/or tumble dryer must be paid for at cost. At Granadilla there is plenty of room to hang out your washing. At Los Abrigos use of the tumble dryer twice a week is included. This is in fairness to others who do not want a rent increase due to rising electricity costs.
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Co Living, house share, rent a room

There is nothing more frustrating than when something that is obvious to you, appears to be bad manners (or an unfair shirking of house duties) is ignored or misunderstood, leaving you to clean up the mess and solve interpersonal disputes. Being old and sometimes grumpy I often wonder what my mother would think of some tenants manners.

However, times have changed and busy lives encourages us to be thoughtless sometimes.

Make Efforts to be part of the Household

In a shared houseĀ  are encouraged to make efforts to connect with each other. Any living arrangements work better when tenants try to interact and help one another.Ā 

Keep your Room clean and tidy

It is the tenant’s responsibility to keep his or her room neat, tidy, and organised. Alternatively, once the weekly household chores are divvied up, one tenant may be paid to clean for another or pay a cleaner from outside to do it.

Communal Space

Do your part in keeping the communal space neat and clean by placing things back to where they belong and in the same condition. A simple gesture such as wiping down the dining table after use is common courtesy. Smoking in co-living premises is not allowed, except for the designated smoking outdoor areas.

Responsible Lifestyle

Leading a sustainable lifestyle is essential and even the smallest of unthinking actions can mount up. Switch off appliances, lights and fans when not in use.

Noise Levels

Common areas are designed for tenants to enjoy and interact with one another. Avoid screaming or blasting music in the common area, especially during the evening and at night.

Co Living, house share, rent a roomRefrigerator Space

If you don’t want your food to be eaten by someone else, keep to your allocated space in the fridge. Clear stale food promptly and make sure everything is wrapped.

Laundry Times

Schedule your laundry day. Avoid disturbing people at antisocial times. Remove dried clothes promptly. No one likes to constantly see washing drying!

Communal Expenses

Many an argument started like the old Ben Elton sketch. ‘It was only a bit of shampoo’; ‘Yes but it was MY shampoo’. As soon as possible agree a kitty forĀ  communal expenses and who responsibility it is to fetch them. This is part of the allocation of household duties.

 

 

Co-Living Getting Your Deposit Back

Here are the principals I adhere to myself when renting a room, considered usual for most decent landlords. You cannot consider them in any way a ‘contract’ unless your landlord specifically states this. It’s simply booking a room for a given period of time (please don’t ask for a year, we cannot do it and it’s unlikely others will!). If you need an empadron check with your landlord before moving in.

On arrival, your booking is subject to a trial period of 2 weeks. If you are unable to get on with other people in the house, you will be asked to find elsewhere. Reasonable time is always allowed for this rare event, provided that the reasons are not extreme, for example theft or aggression.

Deposit

1 months rent is the usualĀ  security deposit. If no damages are found when you leave, the deposit is refunded 1 week after your official leaving date. Invoices confirming your expected leaving date are available when you move in. If you need your deposit refunded on the day of leaving you must arrange to have your room inspected 1 week before leaving and again on the day the deposit is returned.

Official Leaving Date

An example is easiest:

You take the room for 2 months on the 1st Jan so your official leaving date is 1st Mar. Your deposit would be returned 8th Mar, all being well. Remember that unless you discuss this, someone may well arrive to take your room 1st Mar

  1. You decideĀ  to stay longer – your new date is 1 month from the day you eventually give notice, unless other arrangement have been made
  2. If you decide to move in with your mate 2 weeks into the booking, your leaving date is still 1st Mar. You will have paid for Jan but Feb will be deducted from your deposit, ie no refund.
  3. You get an apartment mid Feb and leave without notice. In this scenario you will have already paid for February so your deposit will be returned 8th Mar, 1 week after your official leaving date. If for some reason you didn’t pay Feb, your deposit now covers that.

Deposit Deductions

  • As above, non paid rent for the booked period
  • Obviously any damages, including things like nails in walls to hang pictures, damaged/dirty bed linen.
  • Pillows, duvets, towels and bed linen are not provided. In practice, tenants usually leave behind what’s there and there will be aĀ  set in your room. If you change these things and take them with you when you go, you must replace them with items of the same quality if you have not kept the originals.
  • If you have unknowingly stained the mattress (people often lie on the bed while waiting for laundry without the proper mattress protection) you must get the mattress cleaned before inspection day otherwise the cost of cleaning it will be deducted. Sweat and sun tan oil are very difficult stains to remove. If it’s stained beyond cleaning the replacement costs will also be deducted from your deposit.
  • If you have painted your room (with permission I hope) you must return it to its original color before inspection day.
  • Smoking (It’s a biggie!) If you have smoked in your room your deposit will be forfeit. There are no exceptions. The room has to be repainted, all bedding replaced etc.. It may be nothing to you but to a non smoker it’s huge!
  • Loss of keys. You are responsible for the cost of replacing locks if you lose your key. This includes the “spare” which is simply an emergency key held for reasons of safety or illness only. If you lose a key to the front door the replacement will be for everyone in the house plus a spare. Replacement costs include the builders charge.

Please remember that timescales on deposit refunds 99 time out of a 100 can be sorted to suit both parties if discussed well in advance. Problems arise when someone thinks, wrongly, that they are due a certain amount and that’s not the case.

So read before you arrive and you can avoid any pitfalls. Clean, tidy and as it was, with the booking term completed, there will be no worries.

Again, these are my personal methods of ensuring noĀ  misunderstandings and of course, your co-living situation may be different. That said, I hope it’s given you some pitfalls to avoid and ask any questions BEFORE you move in, not on the day you realise you need your deposit back!


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Long term contracts are unlikely to be given with house share arrangements for several very good reasons, but that’s another topic and a thorny one at that. Some owners may choose to provide cleaning services and other benefits but it’s largely down to ‘you get what you pay for‘.